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Discover the amazing things 5-year-olds are learning — from climbing and jumping to friendships, feelings, and first words on a page. Each skill comes with fun activities you can try together.

Communication & Pragmatics

The social use of language — how children use verbal and non-verbal means to interact, share meaning, and navigate social situations.

Sources (5)
  • Head Start ELOF (Language & Communication)
  • SLP Standards (Pragmatic Language)
  • CASEL (Relationship Skills)
  • UK EYFS (Communication & Language)
  • Teaching Strategies GOLD
5 Subdomains
Conversational Skills Social & Pragmatic Language Theory of Mind Narrative & Discourse Skills8 Non-Verbal Communication
Narrative & Discourse Skills

Constructing extended spoken texts — telling stories, explaining processes, and recounting experiences.

Examples & Achievements

  • Tells a personal story with beginning, middle, and end
  • Retells a familiar story in correct sequence
  • Explains how to do something step by step ("first you... then you...")
  • Describes an event so that a listener who was not there can understand
  • Uses connecting words (then, so, because, but) in narratives

How to Measure

  • Narrative scoring scheme (story grammar elements present)
  • Retells a 3-event story in correct sequence
  • Includes 2+ story grammar elements (character, setting, problem, resolution)
  • TNL-2 (Test of Narrative Language)
Sources (3)
  • SLP Standards
  • Head Start ELOF
  • EYFS
8 Exercises
Daily High-Point Story Story Hand — Five-Finger Retell Wordless Picture Book Walk Story Dice Roll-and-Tell Teach the Clueless Chef PEER & CROWD Dialogic Reading Story Theater — Dictate & Act Phone-Home News
Story Theater — Dictate & Act

The child dictates a story; the adult writes it down word-for-word; later that day or week the family acts it out together with the child as director. Developed by teacher Vivian Gussin Paley across 50+ years of preschool classroom practice; validated in RCT research by Nicolopoulou and colleagues with low-income preschoolers.

  1. Story dictation. Find 10–15 quiet minutes. “Tell me a story — I’ll write it down.” Write exactly what the child says, even errors. Read it back at the end. Date it.
  2. Resist the urge to edit, correct, or "improve" the story. The exact words matter; the story is the child’s, not yours. Editing teaches the child their words weren’t good enough.
  3. If the child stalls, ask ONE open prompt. “And then what happened?” Avoid leading questions (“did the dragon eat the princess?”) — they hijack the story.
  4. Story acting (later that day or that week). Mark out a “stage” on the floor with tape or a rug. Cast the parts together: “Who will be the dragon?” Family members or stuffed animals fill the roles.
  5. The adult is the narrator — reads the dictated story aloud while the actors perform. The child author is the director and can pause, adjust, or redirect.
  6. End with applause. The story is “published” by being performed. That moment of being seen and celebrated is the motivational engine of the whole method.

Variation: Story Journal — bind dictated stories into a homemade book; reread weekly. Photo Story — photograph the acting; print and add to the book. Family Saga — continue characters across weeks (“the dragon comes back…”). Story Dice as launch prompt — roll dice to start a stuck story. Big-Sibling Scribe — an older sibling writes down a younger sibling’s story.

Requirements

  • Space: A quiet spot for dictation; a marked-out "stage" (rug or taped square on the floor) of about 1–2 square metres for acting
  • Surface: Dictation needs a writing surface; acting needs floor
  • Materials: Pen, paper, or notebook (one dedicated "story book"); optional dress-up box (scarves, hats); tape for marking the stage; props are improvised (a wooden spoon becomes a sword)
  • Participants: 1 adult + 1 child for dictation; 2–6 people (siblings, parents, stuffed animals) for the acting
  • Supervision: Adult scribes; adult or older sibling narrates the acting and sets the safety rules

Rationale & Objective

Vivian Paley spent 37 years at the University of Chicago Laboratory School developing and refining storytelling and story-acting; her books (The Boy Who Would Be a Helicopter, 1990; A Child’s Work, 2004) are among the most influential works in early-childhood education of the 20th century. Nicolopoulou’s research programme converted Paley’s practice into testable interventions — Nicolopoulou, Cortina, Ilgaz, Cates & de Sá (2015) ran a study with 149 low-income preschool children comparing the storytelling-and-story-acting practice with comparison classrooms; the intervention group made significantly larger gains in oral language, emergent literacy, story comprehension, and self-regulation. Wright, Diener & Kemp (2013) and Cooper (2005) document implementation and outcomes across multiple settings. The method engages narrative as a social event — the child is an author with an audience, not a test subject. The bidirectional benefit is unique — telling a story to be acted forces the author to consider character actions; acting the story forces the actors to interpret words. Honest caveat — the method requires adult time (the writing) and group buy-in (the acting); easier in a classroom or larger family than for a tired parent alone. The dictation alone, without the acting, still produces benefits but loses the motivational engine.

Progress Indicators

  • Early: stories are 1–2 sentences (“the dog ran. The end.”); no named characters or events; child loses interest before finishing
  • Developing: 4–6 sentences; characters named; one action sequence; no clear ending; will dictate but resists acting (or vice versa)
  • Proficient: stories have a beginning, middle, and end; named characters; a problem and resolution; child remembers their story across the week; participates in acting roles
  • Advanced: stories include dialogue, characters with feelings and motives, internal states (“she was scared because…”); references previous stories; builds a continuing world; enjoys both authoring and acting roles

Safety Notes

  • Don’t censor content if it includes “scary” elements (monsters, fighting) — research shows this is developmentally appropriate and represents real working-through of fears (Paley, 1990); censoring teaches the child their inner life is unsafe
  • Do set actual safety limits during acting — no real hitting; we PRETEND; reset if play gets too physical
  • For shy children, skip the acting and have stuffed animals perform; or have only one trusted adult act
  • Don’t compare siblings’ stories; each is “published” as-is
  • Watch for repetitive themes that feel distressing rather than playful (e.g., specific violence aimed at a real-life person); check in gently with the child if a theme persists across many sessions
  • The acting can get physical — clear breakables from the stage area

Hints

  • Playfulness: dress-up box transforms the acting; capes from old t-shirts work fine; weird props (a colander as a helmet, a broom as a horse) add comedy
  • Sustain interest: rotate “author of the week”; bind stories into a homemade book; perform for grandparents on video; theme weeks (only dinosaur stories)
  • Common mistake: editing or correcting during dictation; ghost-writing (“did you mean the dragon was kind?”); skipping the acting (this is where the joy lives); over-coaching the actors (let the child-director direct, even badly)
  • Limited space and time: skip the acting some days — just dictate and read it at bedtime; or act with just two stuffed animals on the table
  • Cross-domain: literacy (sees words being written then read aloud — print awareness); social skills (cooperation, directing others); emotional literacy (acting out characters’ feelings); creativity (open-ended generation); writing (later, child copies or writes their own dictated stories)
  • Progression: 1–2 sentence story → 4–6 sentence story with characters → story with a problem → story with problem and solution → story with named characters, dialogue, and internal states → continuing saga with recurring characters → child writes (or copies) own stories

Sources

  • Paley, V. G. (1990). *The Boy Who Would Be a Helicopter: The Uses of Storytelling in the Classroom*. Harvard University Press
  • Paley, V. G. (2004). *A Child's Work: The Importance of Fantasy Play*. University of Chicago Press
  • Nicolopoulou, A., Cortina, K. S., Ilgaz, H., Cates, C. B. & de Sá, A. B. (2015). "Using a narrative- and play-based activity to promote low-income preschoolers' oral language, emergent literacy, and social competence." Early Childhood Research Quarterly, 31, 147–162
  • Cooper, P. (2005). "Literacy learning and pedagogical purpose in Vivian Paley's storytelling curriculum." Journal of Early Childhood Literacy, 5(3), 229–251
  • Cremin, T., Flewitt, R., Mardell, B. & Swann, J. (Eds.) (2017). *Storytelling in Early Childhood: Enriching Language, Literacy and Classroom Culture*. Routledge
  • Wright, C., Diener, M. L. & Kemp, J. L. (2013). "Storytelling dramas as a community building activity in an early childhood classroom." Early Childhood Education Journal, 41(3), 197–210
  • Sensale Yazdian, L. (2018). "Paley's Practice: Storytelling, Story Acting, and Early Learning." Children and Libraries, 16(3), 13–17
  • Head Start ELOF — P-LC 6 and P-LIT 4 (oral narrative, dictating stories)
  • UK EYFS — Communication & Language ELG (uses past, present, and future tenses; tells own stories)

The child dictates a story; the adult writes it down word-for-word; later that day or week the family acts it out together with the child as director. Developed by teacher Vivian Gussin Paley across 50+ years of preschool classroom practice; validated in RCT research by Nicolopoulou and colleagues with low-income preschoolers.

  1. Story dictation. Find 10–15 quiet minutes. “Tell me a story — I’ll write it down.” Write exactly what the child says, even errors. Read it back at the end. Date it.
  2. Resist the urge to edit, correct, or "improve" the story. The exact words matter; the story is the child’s, not yours. Editing teaches the child their words weren’t good enough.
  3. If the child stalls, ask ONE open prompt. “And then what happened?” Avoid leading questions (“did the dragon eat the princess?”) — they hijack the story.
  4. Story acting (later that day or that week). Mark out a “stage” on the floor with tape or a rug. Cast the parts together: “Who will be the dragon?” Family members or stuffed animals fill the roles.
  5. The adult is the narrator — reads the dictated story aloud while the actors perform. The child author is the director and can pause, adjust, or redirect.
  6. End with applause. The story is “published” by being performed. That moment of being seen and celebrated is the motivational engine of the whole method.

Variation: Story Journal — bind dictated stories into a homemade book; reread weekly. Photo Story — photograph the acting; print and add to the book. Family Saga — continue characters across weeks (“the dragon comes back…”). Story Dice as launch prompt — roll dice to start a stuck story. Big-Sibling Scribe — an older sibling writes down a younger sibling’s story.

Vivian Paley spent 37 years at the University of Chicago Laboratory School developing and refining storytelling and story-acting; her books (The Boy Who Would Be a Helicopter, 1990; A Child’s Work, 2004) are among the most influential works in early-childhood education of the 20th century. Nicolopoulou’s research programme converted Paley’s practice into testable interventions — Nicolopoulou, Cortina, Ilgaz, Cates & de Sá (2015) ran a study with 149 low-income preschool children comparing the storytelling-and-story-acting practice with comparison classrooms; the intervention group made significantly larger gains in oral language, emergent literacy, story comprehension, and self-regulation. Wright, Diener & Kemp (2013) and Cooper (2005) document implementation and outcomes across multiple settings. The method engages narrative as a social event — the child is an author with an audience, not a test subject. The bidirectional benefit is unique — telling a story to be acted forces the author to consider character actions; acting the story forces the actors to interpret words. Honest caveat — the method requires adult time (the writing) and group buy-in (the acting); easier in a classroom or larger family than for a tired parent alone. The dictation alone, without the acting, still produces benefits but loses the motivational engine.